Character
Hank
The gentle widower. Forty-five, full beard and glasses, builds houses by hand.
Quick facts
- App
- GrindrR dating
- Tier
- Patreon
- Tracker
- dating_hank (0-3), matched_hank
- First date
- Coffee at the mall
TL;DR
Hank is the sixth Patreon muse, added in v0.2.9, and the softest match on the whole app. Where every other muse is young, cold, or a dom, Hank is a 45-year-old widower who builds houses for a living and is in no hurry about anything.
Full brown beard, thick Clark-Kent glasses, green eyes, and a thin gold band still on his finger five years after he lost his wife. He runs his own construction crew, frames timber by hand, and treats a coffee date like the best afternoon he has had in a long time. He tops, but gently, asks before every step, and never degrades. The on-ramp for players who want romance instead of degradation. (Custom NPC by Hursk.)
The three stages
Stage 1. Coffee at the mall. (Fem 20)
Dating_Hank_1. He spots you outside the shops with his own arm full of shirts and waves you over to the food court, no leer in it. Buys both coffees, asks about the bucket list you never got around to, and tells you plainly that he has a lot of love left over and nowhere it has been going. The wedding ring surfaces and he does not hide it. Two response branches, Warm up to him or Keep your guard up, and both are gentle: there is no penalty for staying careful.
Stage 2. Redwood Ranch. (Fem 25, no NSFW)
Dating_Hank_2. A drive out to a friend’s stables, a picnic in the meadow, a slow horse ride out to the water, and a swim in the lake. He mentions his late wife once, honestly, not heavily, and turns the ring on his finger. The afternoon ends with a tender first kiss in the shallows that he asks for out loud first. Emotional core, no sex.
Stage 3. His handmade home. (Fem 30)
Dating_Hank_3. Intimate nights at the house he built by hand outside town. The first three visits run a fixed progression: tender oral worship (he gets on his knees for you), then lingerie (he buys you something pretty and stops short of penetration on purpose), then the first night (slow consummation with you setting the pace on top, sets hank_consummated). After that the stage cycles three established-couple repeats: a lazy morning, a bath where he washes your hair, and the workshop among the sawdust.
Tips
Hank tops, but he is the opposite of the dominant matches
He is the gentle counterweight to Vincent and Eloïse. He asks consent at every step, never humiliates, and on the first night he puts you on top so you control how much and how fast. The Submission gains are small and the scenes read as romance, not service.
The construction tie-in is flavour, not a crossover
Hank mentions his crew framing a place on the east side, and Stage 3’s workshop scene leans on his woodworking, but none of it is gated on the Construction Site job track. That route is the masculine path; Hank’s is the opposite. The two never need to be active together.
He works around the cage
Every Stage 3 scene has a chastity-aware branch. If you arrive caged, Hank acknowledges the keyholder without scorn and gets you there on everything the pink steel leaves him.
Patreon-gated, like the other muses
On the free build Hank can still match, but every date stage politely cancels with a warm rain-check text and the scene does not resolve. See Patreon Vs Free for the full split.
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